Child Development and Growing Up
Children develop physically, socially and emotionally. As they grow they start to learn new skills, increase their independence and and understand and develop opinions and ideas. Find out how you can play a key role in supporting the development of your child.
If your child has additional needs visit our specific section for more support
Your child's development
Children develop in many ways and at different speeds. As your child gets older, they are not only physically growing, but developing socially and emotionally. From the moment your child is born, they are ready to explore and interact with the world.
It can be helpful to have a general idea of what to expect from your child's development. But all children develop in their own time. Do not be concerned if your child is not meeting all the milestones for their age. It's normal for some children to develop skills in one area much quicker than in another.
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Child development and growing up for additional needs
On this page you will find resources and support around child development and growing up for children with additional needs.
Read moreEncouraging independence in young people
Independence for young people is about trying new things, taking on more responsibility, making decisions by themselves, and working out who they are and what they want to be. Achieving independence is an essential part of the journey to adulthood.
Read moreGetting dressed
Learning to get dressed is an important skill for your child to learn. It helps them become independent and gives them a sense of achievement. Every child is different and they all learn in different ways. Some children will pick this skill up quickly and others will need more time and support.
Read moreHand skills
Hand Skills (also known as fine motor skills) are important for our day-to-day lives. As your child plays with their hands, they will develop strength and dexterity with their hands. This will help them use tools like cutlery, pencils, and scissors.
Read moreHormones, puberty and sexuality
As your child grows older, their body will start to develop and change. Your child may become more emotional during this time. They may start to become more interested in developing romantic relationships with others and questioning their sexuality and gender identity.
Read moreHygiene
Good hygiene helps children to live a happier and healthier life. It also helps to reduce the risk of illness, build self-esteem and teaches life skills. Children like to copy. So if they see you washing your hands, and brushing your teeth, they'll be more likely to do it from an early age.
Read moreMilestones
Children develop in lots of different ways. Through interacting and exploring their world, over time they develop skills such as walking, talking and getting dressed. These skills are called developmental milestones.
Read morePreparing for primary school
It is a good idea to start thinking about practicing independence skills with your child. Especially as they approach the age where they will be starting school. This is going to be a big change for your child and your family. You can help them by preparing them for this change.
Read moreTime management and organisation skills
Time management and organisation skills are essential a your child grows older. At secondary school your child will be expected to manage their own time. Find out more information about giving your child more responsibility, traveling to school and tips and tricks to encourage organisation and time keeping.
Read moreWho can help
If you have any questions or concerns about your child's development, a health professional in our team will be able to offer advice and support.
You can email ccs.bedsandlutonchildrenshealthhub@nhs.net
You can call 0300 555 0606
Open Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm (excluding bank holidays).
Or you can text:
- 07507 331456 if you live in Bedfordshire
- 07507 331886 if you live in Luton
Open Monday to Friday 9am to 4:30pm (excluding bank holidays).